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Prayers
and Thoughts for Reflection
There
are hands that help and comfort,
For
every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is
God. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow was filled with sorrow at the tragic death of his wife in a fire in 1861. The Civil War broke out the same year, and it seemed this was an additional punishment. Two years later, Longfellow was again saddened to learn that his own son had been seriously wounded in the Army of the Potomac. Sitting down to his desk, one Christmas Day, he heard the church bells ringing. It was in this setting that Longfellow wrote these lines: I
heard the bells on Christmas Day And
thought how, as the day had come Till,
ringing, singing on its way, Then
from each black, accursed mouth It
was as if an earthquake rent And
in despair I bowed my head; Then
pealed the bells more loud and deep. God
of compassion, there is such a hole in my heart! Today should be a
day of joy, but I feel only emptiness and loss. While the world celebrates
around me, I remember Christmas celebrations of the past and I long
to have my loved one with me. I bring my sorrows to you, Lord, like
some odd gift of the magi and dump them at your feet. In my blind
tears I wonder if anyone can possibly understand the depth of my sadness.
I know, you can. You sent your son to be with us in our deepest sorrows
and I know that even though I might not feel it now, you are here
with me, grieving with me, caring for me in my sadness. Dearest Lord,
help me to turn to the one I miss so much today and speak. Help me
heal the loss of our parting and help me not to regret the things
I didn't say. Sorrow tears at my heart, but today I ask that my loss
soften my heart and make me more compassionate with everyone I meet,
so that my loss may become a gift to others. Amen Blessed
is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love. Each
day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons. Christmas!
The very word brings joy to our hearts. No matter how we may dread
the rush, the long Christmas lists for gifts and cards to be bought
and given-when Christmas Day comes there is still the same warm feeling
we had as children, the same warmth that enfolds our hearts and our
homes. It
is Christmas in the heart that put Christmas in the air. God
has . . . planted eternity in the human heart. Now
is the time for laughter, This
is the time for greeting Now
is the time for reunion This
is the time to be happy, Dear
Lord, in this busy month with my thoughts turned to shopping and gift
giving, skating and sledding, snowman making and shoveling snow, cooking
and decorating, company and laughter, cards and letters, memories
and smiles, trees and Poinsettias, I thank you for the memories and
joys of Christmas past. This Christmas as the snow trickles down from
the sky, bless me with the gift of patience and peace, forgiveness
and love. Shower me with a faith that helps me to share with others
the gift of love that you gave that blessed night in a manger so long
ago. O God, help me to never forget what Christmas is all about. Help
me to look up and follow your star all year – every year. Help
me to lead others to you. Amen. Christmas
waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer
and more beautiful. Poinsettias.
Poinsettias, a native Mexican plant were named after Joel R. Poinsett,
a U. S. ambassador to Mexico who brought the plant to America in 1828.
Poinsettias were used by Mexican Franciscans in their 17th century
Christmas celebrations. Legend has it that a young Mexican boy on
his way to visit the Christ child at a village Nativity gathered pretty
green branches from along the road and brought them to the church.
When the leaves were laid at the manager, a beautiful star shaped
flower appeared on its branch. The Ancient Aztecs prized the poinsettias
a symbol of purity. Do
not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your
names are written in heaven. Christmas
Trees. The Christmas tree can be traced back to the year
1604. In the 16th century Germany fir trees were decorated, both inside
and out, with apples, roses, candies and colored paper. In the Middle
Ages, a popular religious play depicted the story of Adam and Eve’s
expulsion from the Garden of Eden. A fir tree hung with apples was
used to symbolize the Garden of Eden – the Paradise Tree. The
play ended with the prophecy of a savior coming. This was often performed
during the Advent season. It is believed that Protestant reformer
Martin Luther adorned trees with light. While coming home one December
evening, the beauty of the stars shining through the branches of a
fir inspired him to recreate this effect by placing candles on the
branches of a small fir inside his home. An angel or star is often
placed at the top to represent the host of angels or the Star of Bethlehem
from the Nativity story. The Christmas tree was brought to England
by Queen Victoria’s husband, Prince Albert, from his native
Germany. The tree was popularized throughout Victorian England by
the famous 1848 etching of the Royal Family of Victoria, Albert and
their children gathered around a Christmas tree in Windsor Castle. I'm
dreaming of a white Christmas, The
Christmas tree was introduced to America by the Pennsylvania German
immigrants in the eighteenth century. Christmas itself, however, was
little celebrated in Colonial America, except in the Anglican and
Catholic Colonies of the South and where the Germans, Dutch, and Moravians
settled. The Puritans, who settled New England, forbade any observance
of Christmas celebrations, since they believed no day should be more
important than the Sabbath. After the American Revolution, Christmas
trees started to appear throughout America. These early trees were
unpretentious decorated with natural materials gathered from the fields,
woods, paper or fabric. Patchwork quilts were often placed at the
base of the tree. These trees were only a few feet high, set on tables,
and decorated with modest and simple ornaments such as nuts, homemade
cookies, strings of popcorn, and apples. Tree trimming was not widely
practiced in America until the Victorian period. By the middle of
the nineteenth century, people living in the cities could buy special
toys and imported glass ornaments for their trees. Around the turn
of the twentieth century, the Christmas tree became very popular in
America. Larger, floor to ceiling trees replaced table trees and were
decorated with store bought and homemade ornaments. People who did
not have a tree at home could enjoy the community tree set in the
local schoolhouse, town hall or church. By 1930 the decorated Christmas
tree had become a significant part of the American Christmas. I
have been looking on, this evening, at a merry company of children
assembled round that pretty German toy, a Christmas Tree. The
best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy
family all wrapped up in each other. Holy
Creator of Trees, He
who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree. Candy
Canes. It was not long after Europeans began using Christmas
trees that special decorations were used to adorn them. Food items,
such as candies and cookies, were used predominately and straight
white candy sticks were one of the confections used as ornamentation.
Legend has it that during the 17th century, craftsmen created the
white sticks of candy in the shape of shepherds’ crooks at the
suggestion of the choirmaster at the Cologne Cathedral in Germany.
The candy treats were given to children to keep them quiet during
religious ceremonies. This custom soon spread throughout Europe. According
to the National Confectioner’s Association, in 1847 German immigrant
August Imgard used the candy cane to decorate a Christmas tree in
Wooster, Ohio. Bob McCormack of Albany, Georgia more than 50 years
later made candy canes as treats for family, friends, and local shopkeepers.
McCormack’s brother-in-law Catholic priest Gregory Keller, invented
a machine in the 1950’s that automated the production of candy
canes and the popularity of the candy cane grew. The symbolism of
the color white represents Christ’s purity and the red the blood
he shed. The presence of the three red stripes the Holy Trinity. I
wish we could put up some of the Christmas spirit in jars and open
a jar of it every month. Holly.
In Northern Europe, Christmas occurred during the middle of winter.
Boughs of holly were believed to have magical powers since they remained
green during the harsh winter. They were placed over the doors to
drive evil away. Brought indoors, it would brighten the mood during
the long harsh winters and freshen the air. Legend has it that holly
sprang from the footsteps of Christ as he walked the earth. The pointed
leaves were said to represent the crown of thorns Christ wore while
on the cross and the red berries symbolized the blood he shed. But
seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things
will be given to you as well. Christmas
Stockings. According to legend, Christmas stockings began
when a nobleman upset by the death of his wife squandered away his
fortune leaving three young daughters without dowries. St. Nicholas
hearing of the girls plight set forth to help. Wishing to remain anonymous,
he rode his white horse by the nobleman’s house and threw three
small pouches of gold down the chimney where they were captured by
the stocking the young girls had placed by the fireplace to dry. The
only gift is a portion of thyself. Santa
Claus. The origin of Santa Claus begins in the 4th century
with Saint Nicholas, Bishop of Myra, in an area in present day Turkey.
Saint Nicholas was devoted to children and a generous man. After his
death around 340 AD, he was buried in Myra. In 1087 Italian sailors
stole his remains and removed them to Bari, Italy thus increasing
his popularity in Europe. His kindness and reputation for generosity
led to thoughts he could perform miracles and his popularity increased.
Saint Nicholas became the patron saint of Russia where he was known
for his flowing white beard and red cape. In Greece, he became the
patron saint of sailors. France made him the patron saint of lawyers.
Belgium made Saint Nicholas the patron of children and travelers.
Churches were dedicated to him and around the 12th century an official
church holiday was created in his honor. The Fest of St. Nicholas
was celebrated December 6. The day was marked by gift giving and charity.
European followers of Saint Nicholas dwindled after the Reformation.
The legend was kept alive in Holland where the Dutch spelling of his
name Sint Nikolaas. This was transformed to Sinterklaas. Dutch children
would leave their wooden shoes by the fireplace where Sinterklaas
would reward them with treats in their shoes. Dutch colonists brought
this tradition with them to America in the 17th century. This is where
the Anglican name of Santa Claus emerged. In 1822 Clement C. Moore
composed the poem ‘A Visit from Saint Nicholas’ published
as ‘The Night Before Christmas’ as a gift for his children. Jesus
said, “By this all men will know that you are my disciples,
if you love one another.” Christmas
gift suggestions: To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity.
To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect. Twas
the night before Christmas, when all through the house The
children were nestled all snug in their beds, When
out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, The
moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow With
a little old driver, so lively and quick, "Now
Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen! As
dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly, And
then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof He
was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot, His
eyes-how they twinkled! his dimples how merry! The
stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth, He
was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf, He
spoke not a word, but went straight to his work, He
sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle, Love
is, above all, the gift of oneself. Christmas
Cards. More than 95% of all Americans receive at least one
Christmas card each year. The average is actually more than 70 cards
per family. Millions of cards are mailed each holiday season throughout
the world. A museum director in the mid 19th century liked to send
yearly notes to his friends at Christmas, just to wish them a joyful
holiday season. His name was Sir Henry Cole and was the first director
of London’s Victoria and Albert Museum. Sir Henry found himself
too busy in the Christmas season of 1843 to compose individual Christmas
greetings for his friends, but he still wanted to send a message of
good cheer. He asked his artist friend, John Calcott Horsely, to design
a card that he might sign and send. The card featured three panels,
with the center panel depicting a family enjoying Christmas festivities
and the card was inscribed with the message, “A Merry Christmas
and a Happy New Year to You.” Those who received the cards loved
the idea and created cards of their own. This is how the Christmas
card began. Three years earlier, Cole had helped to introduce the
Penny Post, a batch of 1000 cards which were printed and sold for
a shilling each. In 1875 Louis Prang became the first printer to offer
cards in America. Cheap imitations and postcards brought the end for
elaborate Victorian style cards though cards with envelopes had returned
by the 1920s. Official Christmas cards began with Queen Victoria in
the 1840s. The British royal family’s cards are generally portraits
reflecting significant personal events of the year. In 1953, President
Dwight D. Eisenhower issued the first official White House card depicting
White House scenes. Remind
me Lord that your gifts to me are meant to be shared in love, with
others. Unless
we make Christmas an occasion to share our blessings, all the snow
in Alaska won't make it 'white'. It’s
happy, sparkling Christmastime, Christmas
Carols. German and British front-line soldiers sang carols,
exchanged gifts, and played soccer during a World War I Christmas
truce. In the winter of 1914, on the battlefields of Flanders, Belgium
one of the most unusual events in history took place. The Germans
had been in a fierce battle with the British and French with both
sides safe in muddy, man made trenches six to eight feet deep. All
of a sudden, German soldiers began to put small Christmas trees, lit
with candles, outside their trenches and started singing songs. The
British and French troops started singing. Some English speaking Germans
proposed a ‘Christmas’ truce and the British and French
troops accepted. Though a few allied troops fired at the Germans,
they climbed out of their trenches to celebrate Christmas. Stanley
Weintraub wrote about this event in his book, Silent Night, the Story
of the World War I Christmas Truce. Germans made signs, ‘You
no fight, we no fight’ and the British units made banners of
‘Merry Christmas’. Gifts of cake postcards, newspaper
and tobacco were exchanged. Ultimately the war continued for another
four years with over 8 ½ million killed and 21 million wounded
and though other Christmas truces were proposed, they never took place. Jingle Bells. John Pierpont died a failure. In 1866, at age eighty-one, he came to the end of his days as a government clerk in Washington, D.C., with a long string of personal defeats abrading his spirit. Things began well enough. He graduated from Yale, which his grandfather had helped found, and chose education as his profession with some enthusiasm. He was a failure at school teaching. He was too easy on his students. He turned to the legal world for training. He was a failure as a lawyer. He was too generous to his clients and too concerned about justice to take the cases that brought good fees. The next career he took up was that of dry-goods merchant. He was a failure as a businessman. He could not charge enough for his goods to make a profit, and was too liberal with credit. In the meantime he had been writing poetry, and though it was published, he didn’t collect enough royalties to make a living. He was a failure as a poet. And so he decided to become a minister, went off to Harvard Divinity School, was ordained as minister of the Hossis Street Church in Boston. But his position on Prohibition and against slavery got him crosswise with the influential members of his congregation and he was forced to resign. He was a failure as a minister. Politics seemed a place where he could make some difference, and he was nominated as the Abolition party candidate for governor of Massachusetts. He lost. Undaunted, he ran for Congress under the banner of the Free Soil Party. He lost. Someone found him an obscure job in the back offices of the Treasury Department in Washington. He finished out the last five years of his life as a menial file clerk. He wasn’t very good at that either. His heart was not in it. John Pierpont died a failure. He had accomplished nothing he set out to do or be. There is a small memorial stone marking his grave in Mount Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, Massachusetts. The words in the granite read: Poet, Preacher, Philosopher, Philanthropist. From this distance in time, one might insist that he was not, in fact, a failure. His commitments to social justice, his desire to be a loving human being, his active engagement in the great issues of his times, and his faith in the power of the human mind, these are not failures. Much of what he though of as defeat became success. Education was reformed, legal processes were improved, credit laws were changed, and above all, slavery was abolished once and for all. Many
nineteenth century reformers had similar lives – similar failures
and successes. Make
a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands. Serve the Lord with gladness;
come before his presence with singing. Twelve Days of Christmas. Though the following song is believed to have been written much earlier, it wasn’t printed until 1780 in a children’s book, Mirth Without Mischief. It was a French song with hidden meanings to the teaching of the faith written as an encouragement to people to keep their faith alive not only when it is easy, but when any outward expressions of their faith could mean their life. The “true love” mentioned in the song doesn’t refer to an earthly suitor, it refers to God Himself. The “me” who receives the presents refers to every baptized person. The twelve days of Christmas in the song are the twelve days between the birth of Christ (Christmas, December 25) and the coming of the Magi, (Epiphany, January 6). The partridge in a pear tree was Jesus Christ, the Son of God. Two turtle doves were the Old and New Testaments. Three French hens stood for Faith, Hope and Love, the Theological Virtues. The four calling birds were the four gospels or the four Evangelists of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. The five golden rings recalled the Torah or Law, the first Five Books of the Old Testament, the Pentateuch which gives the history of man’s fall from grace. The six geese a-laying stood for the six Days of Creation. Seven swans a-swimming represented the sevenfold gifts of the Holy Spirit, the seven sacraments: Prophesy, Serving, Teaching, Exhortation, Contribution, Leadership, and Mercy. The eight maids a-milking were the eight Beatitudes. Nine ladies dancing were the nine Fruits of the Holy Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control. The ten lords a-leaping were the Ten Commandments. The eleven pipers piping stood for the eleven faithful Disciples. The
twelve drummers drumming symbolized the twelve points of belief in
The Apostles’ Creed. In
the past God spoke to our forefathers through the prophets at many
times and in various ways, but in these last days he has spoken to
us by his Son, whom he appointed heir of all things, and through whom
he made the universe. God’s
gifts put man’s best dreams to shame. It’s
Christmas! They
tell how angels caroled And
wise men, too, came from afar, It’s
Christmas! Immensity
cloistered in thy dear womb, "Christmas
Eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl.
But it warmed more than your body. It warmed your heart...filled it,
too, with melody that would last forever." This
is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about: His mother Mary was pledged
to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found
to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband
was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public disgrace,
he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered
this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph
son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because
what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth
to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will
save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill
what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will
be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him
Immanuel” which means, “God with us.” When Joseph
awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him. Life
holds no sweeter thing than this – to teach a little child the
tale most loved on earth. And watch the wonder deepen in his eyes
the while you tell him of the Christ Child’s birth. Off
to one side sits a group of shepherds. They sit silently on the floor,
perhaps perplexed, perhaps in awe, no doubt in amazement. Their night
watch had been interrupted by an explosion of light from heaven and
a symphony of angels. God goes to those who have time to hear him"--
and so on this cloudless night he went to simple shepherds. And
she gave birth to her firstborn son, God
walked down the stairs of heaven with a Baby in His arms. Three
Kings came riding from far away, The
star was so beautiful, large and clear, Three
caskets they bore on their saddle-bows, And
so the Three Kings rode into the West, "Of
the child that is born," said Baltasar, And
the people answered, "You ask in vain; And
when they came to Jerusalem, So
they rode away; and the star stood still, And
the Three Kings rode through the gate and the guard, And
cradled there in the scented hay, His
mother Mary of Nazareth They
laid their offerings at his feet: And
the mother wondered and bowed her head, Then
the Kings rode out of the city gate, The
grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God stands
forever. Fail
not to call to mind, in the course of the twenty-fifth of this month,
that the Divinest Heart that ever walked the earth was born on that
day; and then smile and enjoy yourselves for the rest of it; for mirth
is also of Heaven's making. There’s
more, much more to Christmas Loving
Father, help us remember the birth of Jesus, Late
on a sleepy, star-spangled night, those angels peeled back the sky
just like you would tear open a sparkling Christmas present. Then,
with light and joy pouring out of Heaven like water through a broken
dam, they began to shout and sing the message that baby Jesus had
been born. The world had a Savior! The angels called it "Good
News, " and it was. The
birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all
history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world the healing
medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost
two thousand years... Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating
Christmas heart. Give
more honor to others than to yourselves. Do not be interested only
in your own life, but be interested in the lives of others. Each
day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons. Our
friends are the people whom we choose; usually friends are the same
sort of people as ourselves. My neighbor is the man whom I do not
choose; he is the man whom God gives to me. He is the man who happens
to live in the house next to mine; he is the man who happens to sit
opposite to me in the train; he is the clerk who works at the desk
next to mine. I have no right to say that he is no concern of mine,
because, if I am a Christian, I know that he is the man whom God has
given to me. The
joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others’ burdens,
easing others’ loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives
with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of Christmas. Feeling
gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not
giving it. The
kingdom of God is within you. Once
in an age, God sends to some of us a friend who loves in us, not a
false-imagining, an unreal character, but, looking through all the
rubbish of our imperfections, loves in us the divine ideal of our
nature, -- loves, not the man that we are, but the angel that we may
be. If
instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving
thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels
give. God
works through different people in different ways, but it is the same
God who achieves his purpose through them all. To
give and then not feel that one has given is the very best of all
ways of giving. The
earth has grown old with its burden of care, but at Christmas it always
is young, The heart of the jewel burns lustrous and fair And its soul
full of music breaks the air, When the song of angels is sung." When
the song of the angels is stilled, To
find the lost, And
to radiate the Light of Christ, every day, Then
the work of Christmas begins. Jesus
said, “Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams
of living water will flow from within him.” For
it is impossible to be in the presence of Jesus and not be changed. Christmas
is forever, not for just one day, Kindle
afresh the gift of God which is in you. What
we are is God’s gift to us. What we become is our gift to God. I
need never feel abandoned or afraid. For
the spirit of Christmas fulfills the greatest hunger of mankind. This
is Christmas: not the tinsel, not the giving and receiving, not even
the carols, but the humble heart that receives anew the wondrous gift,
the Christ. Since
you are God’s child, everything he has belongs to you. Christmas
is not a date. It is a state of mind. As
long as we know in our hearts what Christmas ought to be, Christmas
is. Thank you Dear Lord for all the memories and magic of Christmas. May it always be a time of giving and caring, discovery and learning, joy and delight, remembering and sharing and reading and hearing your word. I pray you will bless me with a Christmas heart, a wide open beating heart that puts others first. Help me to always spread warmth in my spirit and in my home. This Christmas, show me how to make each day special to others spreading the news of Christ’s birth, your love and grace. Thank you for the many gifts you give me, especially for the gift of life itself. Amen. Christmas,
my child, is love in action. ... Every time we love, every time we
give, it's Christmas. Christmas
- that magic blanket that wraps itself about us, that something so
intangible that it is like a fragrance. It may weave a spell of nostalgia.
Christmas may be a day of feasting, or of prayer, but always it will
be a day of remembrance - a day in which we think of everything we
have ever loved. Lord,
hold our troops in your loving hands. You
go no where by accident.
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